I’m ready for the changes the springtime can bring in people. I have so much going on in my life right now that something needs to change. Something will change and if I don’t decide what it’s going to be soon, it will happen for me and maybe not the part I intended. I feel like I still have control over the situation right now so while I’m here…. here goes!
1 – Find the little moments & make them big. When I hear “Mom, will you play with me?”, instead of saying, “Yes, in a minute.” I almost always drop what I’m doing & get down on their level. I probably wasn’t doing anything super important anyway.
2 – Calendar. Calendar. Calendar. Use it and detail the hell out of everything. I have about 5 too many things that I’m involved in. None of them have my full attention so I suck at everything I do for them. I have every schedule known to man now on Google and the conflicts are staring daggers at me. So much easier to see these a week in advance instead of an hour when I can’t do much about it!
3 – Figure out what sucks & change it. I’ve waited my whole life for these moments and they are finally here and I find myself dreaming about the next ones. I haven’t lived these yet? What the hell?! So, I’m figuring out why… these moments are finally here and I think they suck & doing something about it. They really don’t suck. It’s just my inability to figure them out. Its actually a really fun time and everything I imagined them to be. It’s my attitude that sucks & so I’m changing it 🙂
4 – Smile. Laugh. Share. Everyone likes to smile & laugh. Share something to bring it all together.
5 – Love him for who he is.