His last two posts feel like they were written for me and my husband.
Men aren’t so bad.
We lead nations. Win wars. Build skyscrapers.
We fix things. Protect things. Create things.
We are often calm. Rarely petty. Good problem solvers.
All men want to be heroes.
I’ve written a series of blog posts titled “An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands.” There are four parts so far. I published Vol. 4 yesterday, and it is far and away the most-popular thing I’ve written.
Predictably, unhappy wives are drawn to it. It makes sense that they would be.
Marriage—or at least, relationship—trouble is unquestionably the human ailment that affects more adults than any other thing in the world.
And that makes sense, too. We are attracted to others. We find each other. Pair up. The honeymoon period is always awesome.
Then monotony sets in. And that’s when we learn about ourselves and our relationships.
That’s when we learn whether we’re going to let our feelings…
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