I hate that my husband is so defensive. It’s so much of the reason I can never talk to him about anything because he takes everything as a personal attack. It might not have anything to do with him but he’s forever pushing me down emotionally when ever I try to talk. I’m hoping our therapist can help with this. I refuse to take it anymore. I’ve been made invisible for so many years now. No more. Hopefully we can figure out a way to communicate with out it.