Friends!! It’s been years. Admittedly, I spent the better part of 20 minutes reminiscing over the shit show from 2014 – 2016. I’m never going to get that part of my life back. I actually looked in to 2013 and how lonely and miserable I was. I remember it but not as bad as it was apparently. Damn.
The flip side of this is that, while being divorced and single sucks in a whole lot of ways…. there is always a silver lining. I am NOT that miserable anymore. Not even close.
Frank: Oddly enough I realized why I so much loved that man with more than I should have. I may have neglected to tell reveal his age. He’s like 15 years older than I am. Him and I have talked way more than ever during this entire transition. He provided the most amazing advice and comfort to me than I ever expected. While undeniably attracted to him, I no longer have this desire to be with him. I don’t really get it but whatever. I haven’t talked to him very much except for when I really need him. He will always give me 100% of his attention yet I know we are both best in where we are.
Mr. G – I’m waiting for his divorce. Maybe. Though not to be with him. I think he’s miserable.
My Husband: He’s currently dating the mistress and soon to be engaged. My life blows in this aspect. She’s not cool and more about that in another post. But seriously it might be the saddest relationship ever. They think it’s a love story. My kids will see another divorce or HORRID marriage, once again. Not, not, not cool.
Me: I dig my single status. Most of the time. The other most of the time I wish I had someone. I’ve dated a few guys. They suck. I’m too picky. I don’t want to go through this again. So… game on Mr. Right.